First Date Tips For Romance - 2

• Remember that the first date is supposed to be fun. You are getting to know this person and he is getting to know you. It should not be something that feels like a meeting with your boss.


• Look for something creative and make sure it allows you to interact. It will help if the activity relates to a shared interest, such as art or music.


• Doing something you enjoy takes the pressure off.


• Women sometimes crank up the pressure because of the hope that this guy is "the One". Slow down; it's just a date.


• Have realistic expectations about a first date. Some people start planning their wedding and others expect the worst.


• Have a specific plan. Do not leave things up to chance. Flexibility is nice but it reduces anxiety to know what to expect in terms of activity and how to dress.


• If the date goes well do not hang on until the wee hours of the morning. There will likely be a next time.


• If the date is a dud do not make any promises you will not keep. Do not be encouraging if you feel no interest in further socializing. Do be honest and say you feel there is not a basis for anything other than friendship and let your date take it from there.  Then pick yourself up and move on. There are 110 million single adults in the United States alone.


• Give your date a chance. Take the time to listen and look for their special qualities.

The Number One mistake people make on first dates is to judge the other person too quickly and harshly. Always keep an open mind. There is so much to discover about a person.